Introduction:
Every
family has disagreements. Someone
once told about a couple celebrating many years of marriage. The man said,
"I'm pleased to be able to say that we've never had a fight." The
wife responded, "Well, it helps to get old and develop a poor
memory!"
The
couple that never has conflicts does not exist. Unfortunately, conflicts can
lead to bad fights. A bad fight is one that seriously alienates husband and
wife but never resolves the cause of the problem. As a result couples build up
bitterness, quarreling, uncontrolled anger, hatred, and often divorce.
What
many couples lack is the skill to discuss disagreements and resolve them.
Specifically, they need the ability to discuss serious problems, reach a plan
to resolve them, and then put that plan into action. I emphasize that this is a
skill that many people simply never have learned, but which can be learned.
The
purpose of this study is to learn what the Bible says about how to resolve
conflict in marriage.